We are in a strange predictiment when it comes to dating. Girls believe if they hold off long enough, Mr. Right will come prancing through that door. All of the guys in between are there to mislead. The other category of ladies will date any gu that has two legs, and while although many girls are jealous that these type of girls have boyfriends prior to them, there is no incentive to these relationships lasting because 99% of these too quickly committng relationships die. Where is the line? What is the balance line in parenting??

It is only after I stop to think about situations or people when I realize many times my actual feelings are being masked by quick decisions. I feel a churning in my stomach many times telling me that there are greater, deeper feelings not being vocalized because I feel I should have a quick answer on everything. I have no doubt this strategy has ransomed my true emotions in many situations, and therefore, I must focus on recapturing my impressions. The focus for this month will be to be slower to speak and allow more time for processing prior to suggestions, replies, and display of weighted values.