There is a counter culture where actions in relationships are not appreciated, instead expected. This standard makes the dating process seem defeating and makes one powerless. Especially when you end with the, 'it's not you, it's me' line. 

A girl broke up with me today. Thankfully, I'm not defeated. Sad and disappointed, sure. 

Still, I can't help but think that some of this had something to do with the fact that I was the first person who has ever asked her out. 

It's like I took a hit for the future guy who is going to make that relationship a success. 

Thankfully, from my end, I did everything correctly. I was smooth about my approaches and I even got in a few hand holdings and continuing to totally play it smooth. A hug from time to time. Win! 

There is a risk in dating girls who have never dated either. I'm sure the same is true for reverse. Until you get the process, you can't make the conscious decision to commit. In order to commit, you have to be comfortable with the process. So true with so many elements in life! 🙂