Could I just go off for a moment? Thanks!! I am tired, tired of the way many people see culture. Yes, guys like girls, but do the extras have to be included? As humans, cheating by not having flaws in our culture would be bland and unchallenging; remember, life is about overcoming challenges, so yes, cultural flaws are a part of the process of world and should be accepted. 

Fact: guys absolutely do NOT want high maintenance women....yes, your hair might perfect, but the way you prepare just is not practical. Guys want women that don't mind getting wet or muddy on occasion. We want REAL. We want PRACTICAL. Honestly, in a world where girls are constantly comparing themselves with others, I don't see how they can get the time to have a quality relationship with somebody. Guys want pretty, but not at the cost of mascara anxieties.

#2 Ladies, hear me clear, GUYS. MAKE. MISTAKES. in fact, it should be what you find attractive about them.  Make your man feel comfortable. If you can accomplish this task, uour man will be instoppable. You will see him for who he is, and he will overtake you with passion because he WANTS to ravish you with love. When guys make mistakes, uplift them  and respect them. A man knowing that he is not in his worst mistake alone will give himself the confidence to move mountains.

Nobody is perfect, but if you are constantly worrying about your appearance, guys will feel insecure about not keeping to the same standard. Relationships are not about looks; they are about HEARTS. Don't let society take you with their lies. Be the person you are 100%

#3 It bugs me beyond end when I see guys or girls look away after a person of the opposite sex gives them a smile. Rude. Remember that your civil right to respect others can be accomplished without dating them. A smile is just a smile. A friendly hello is just a friendly hello. Too often I find individuals glaring at others because they immediately jump to a possible dating prospect. Get over yourselves and return the gesture.

#4 Always be ready to talk to the other person; this is key number 1 to successful communication skills in marriage, the heartbeat of a successful marriage. Yelling at others without giving them a chance to speak is destructive and not Gods best. We were made to push out struggles together, but if one party simply gives up, the heartbeat will quit. 



#5 Ladies, have the confidence to know that you are beautiful. Guys enjoy you because of the way you see yourselves....promise! I have seen SO MANY normal appearing people score hugely attractive husbands/wives BECAUSE of the way they see themselves; they have the confidence to accept who they are as people and as potential world changers. Please don't ruin this beauty by spending hours in the restroom or by talking about your skin on the date. Understand, your confidence is there. Go out and learn about others!