I believe the true Christians have nothing to hide. Yes, we all have privacy concerns, but taking up the cross is giving others permission to invade your life trying to judge you. Anybody should be able to come up to you and address a concern or ask a question. You can answer it with what you want, but a true Christian will not be found faulty. By choosing Christ, we are allowing others into our lives. We are allowing people to question, Christian or not. Using these standards along with the Bible, personal conviction, and the Holy Spirit leading you, we should be striving to uphold a higher standard. When sin is brought into the open, and the guilty gets angry that the sin is found out, this is a first sign that he/she is putting on a face for others. Back away. Do not give into that trap.