It happens all the time. I see women that could be so much more. I heart seriously bleeds for these people. When they realize that God has other plans for me (as in not with them), I hurt knowing they are back at square one. Now, dont get me wrong, I am not flirting with them, but the fact that a GUY is TALKING to them warms their souls. For this reason, it would be ten times better to not get married. Marriage is a carnal thing, yet my soul wants someone to experience things with. IDK, I just wish I could just date these people and instantly leave their lives knowing that their confidence has been established. Solution here? Nope....let my heart continue to bleed and pour as much as I can into these girls I constantly see. I SO WISH they could find their confidence in God and forget about what the world thinks about them, but when you have grown up constantly thinking people are thinking negative things about how you look, HOW are you supposed to take that power away and focus on God. Clearly, the solution is God............How can I direct them to God and tell them they are beautiful and for them to really receive it that I am talking to each one specifically.